Did you know that 23% of Americans married someone they met while traveling?
This means that looking for love in another country is not only exciting, but it’s also possible that you will find the woman of your dreams.
However, consider the cultural differences first before packing your suitcase.
You are visiting a foreign place. They have their own culture and set of traditions, especially in terms of dating.
As a tourist, you should consider the following tips, or you might end up failing in your search for love.
Going to a different country means trying out new things.
Although your goal is to find a date, don’t limit your experience to meeting women.
Appreciate the beauty that the city or country has to offer. Wander around, try out the food, and record every new adventure that you experience.
The beauty of visiting a new place is immersing yourself in what makes it special and unique, so make the most of it.
Each country has its own unique dating customs.
Public displays of affection, for instance, are fine in countries such as the United States. This is, however, frowned upon in the Philippines. Although it is not taboo, it’s such a big no-no since most Filipinos are generally conservative.
Having said that, don’t visit a country without knowledge of its customs and traditions.
As a tourist, it is your responsibility to learn about these cultural differences before you board that plane. It’s not the local’s problem if you are having difficulty communicating with them.
It’s understandable if you find it hard to talk to foreign women since aside from the cultural differences, the language barrier is also a problem.
However, you should not be afraid to approach a foreign woman if you really like her.
Women, in general, won’t mind if you talk to them. As long as you are not creepy and are not making sexual advances, they will agree to have a chitchat.
Now, I can’t say that this will lead to a relationship. The decision still depends if she likes you back.
For starters, your search for love does not end when you head back home.
I understand if you feel like there’s some kind of time limit; that you should already have a girlfriend by the time you get back from your trip. However, it’s impossible to build a deep connection that fast.
What you should do instead is take things slow. Talk to a lot of women and check your compatibility.
If you are certain that a specific woman is a good match for you, then ask for her number or connect with her on social media. Continue building the foundation of your relationship after your trip.
Remember, your visit may have a time limit, but your dating life doesn’t.
Many men have already found the love of their lives abroad.
Some of them only wanted to travel and experience something new, but they ended up meeting their soon-to-be partners. Meanwhile, others take a trip for the sole purpose of finding a bride.
Regardless of your goal, take note of the aforementioned tips because they will help make your search easier and more enjoyable.
So, pack your bags and get ready for a life-changing experience. The opportunity to find love overseas awaits. Good luck!
This story was originally published on Medium: Advice for Single Men Looking for Love in Other Countries
