5 Signs Your First Date Was a Complete Failure

a man with cap sitting at a table while holding a cellphone This dating tip will tell you if there’s a second date on the horizon or not.

How many times have you found yourself at the end of a first date wondering if it went well or not? We bet, more times than you would’ve wanted to, right?

Not knowing whether you did enough to impress or completely mess it up can keep you up at night, especially if you really like the girl. Then there’s that lingering anticipation and anxiety about whether you should call first or wait for her to call you.

When using a dating app or online dating, coming up with a quick conversation starter isn't very difficult. You have time to study their profile and possibly their social media accounts. If you have not done this research when meeting in person, it may be more difficult to determine how to start things.

Dating conversations can be a great time, but you must keep your eye on body language as it may be the quickest way to detect a possible red flag. These skills are especially important for men who are dating a

Don’t you just wish that there is some sort of a failed first date manual that you can turn to in times like these?

In this list, we are revealing five signs that your first date was a failure and that there’s no need for the waiting game anymore.

  1. You aren’t on the same page when it comes to the relationship.
  2. There you are enjoying your dessert and deep into the discussion about the possible future of the relationship when you realize that what you both want are really different things.

    She may not be looking for anything serious while you are ready for a real relationship. This is sign number one that it’s useless to move forward anymore.

  3. One of you was late.
  4. Especially if there’s no valid reason behind the tardiness, it’s an easy clue that there isn’t a huge appreciation given to the relationship as well as respect for the other party present.

    If someone isn’t committed as early as this stage, then there’s no point waiting for the second date.

  5. You’ve fought already.
  6. May it be a light banter or a blown-out screaming match, if this happened on the first date, the first time you’ve seen each other face to face, then there is obviously no healthy angle you can push the relationship into accepting.

    Most especially if there was no resolution at the end of the night. You shouldn’t be meeting anytime soon.

  7. There’s no chemistry between you.
  8. Even if you’ve spent hours together and tried to find commonalities, there isn’t really anything motivating you to know more about each other.

    Relationships are about finding ways to connect. And if all you could think of was what to do when you get home, you know this date isn’t supposed to flourish.

  9. Phones were out in the middle of the date.
  10. There’s no clearer indicator of boredom and lack of interest in a date than pulling your phones out at a time when you’re supposed to talk excitedly.

    Unless it’s an emergency, no one should be taking calls or texting anybody else. Also, remember that phones can only be a good sign if it’s for taking photos together; everything else, no.

All of these are but basic tips you must be familiar with by now if you are planning on staying in the dating pool. Unlucky dates do happen, and it’s no determiner of your self-worth or value as a romantic partner.

Learn what you can from the past and make proper changes. Once you know what you're doing wrong, trying again is effortless. You can do it. You should NEVER give up on love.

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