How to Get a Date Before Couple’s Appreciation Month

Couple’s month is like Valentine’s Day, except it is exclusively for lovers.

What is National Couple Appreciation Month?

Simply put, it’s a holiday similar to Valentine’s Day, except it’s exclusive to couples. Unlike Valentine’s – where family and friends join in the celebration – Couple’s Month focuses solely on lovers.

Since it’s a day specifically for lovers, they would often celebrate their relationship and reinforce the love they have for each other during this special holiday.

It’s a day single people dread.

Nothing is worse than being single on a day meant for love. It’s not easy to find a date either. If it were, there wouldn’t be people around the world moaning about being single, wondering what to do and what to say to get a date all the time.

Hopefully, you still have time to find someone to date before Couple’s Month. If you’re having trouble trying to date girls, here are some tips that will make things easier for you.

1. Go Online

The fastest way for you to get a date is through the internet. From dating apps, dating sites, meeting someone on social media platforms, or even asking a friend, getting a date is faster when you’re online.

But it’s not easy all the time.

A lot of men have problems trying to get a date on online dating apps because of how high the standards are nowadays. Most women on these dating platforms often pick their matches based on how physically attractive the guy is on his profile photo. And if you get lucky enough to find a match on these sites, one wrong move and they will ghost you in a flash.

While some men do get lucky, others aren’t as fortunate. That’s why, if you want to increase your chances of finding a match online, matchmaking sites are your best bet. These sites are more secure, and they promise results. They conduct background checks on their members to ensure they are who they claim to be, and you are guaranteed that everyone on the site is looking for something serious.

With that said, trying out dating apps doesn’t always give you a bad ending. There are some sites where you’ll have better luck finding decent matches.

There are many couples who became long-term partners due to a dating app. As much bad rep as they get, relationships do happen because of them. You just need to pick the right dating app or site.

If you want to find a quick date just in time for Couple’s Month, swipe right.

Going online is typically the fastest and easiest way to get a date.

2. Go to Bars and Clubs

Bars and clubs are full of flirtatious people who are also scoping out the dating scene. They are where you can find a date instantly.

Go to your city’s downtown area and find a popular gathering spot. There, you will meet a lot of women. While most are looking for quick hookups, there are also those that are looking for long-term boyfriends. However, there are only a few of them.

If you still end up empty-handed, you will at least enjoy the night drinking and dancing with many people. I advise you to become a regular at a local bar and become familiar with other regulars.

3. Ask a Friend

If you’ve exhausted every option with your group of friends, maybe it’s time to branch out. Try your friends’ friends. Ask them for their opinions and see if they know anyone that’s looking for a partner.

There’s always the option of letting a close friend scroll through your contacts or social media and let them find a hidden gem for you. Because they’re your friend, they might know more about you than you do yourself and have the confidence of knowing which person is for you.

Trust them to make the judgment, especially if you can’t make the decision yourself.

4. Visit Cafes

There are a lot of pretty people who visit cafes to socialize and meet new friends. Lots of single people go to these places for the drinks and the ambiance. Cafes are the perfect places to have romantic meet-ups, after all.

Visit the local cafes in your street. If there’s none, go to Instagram and look for popular cafes nearby that you can visit. The trending ones are usually the best places to find single ladies.

Tip: Milk tea shops are usually more packed with ladies than coffee shops. Coffee shops are filled with 70% busy people who are there for work, while the 30% are single people scoping out potential date partners.

5. Join a Club

Clubs widen your social circle, which also helps you meet new people. If you’re an extrovert, this is where you will thrive. It’s not a problem if you’re an introvert either because it helps you build bonds with people who have the same interests as you.

Joining a club also gives you something to look forward to in life. When you’re tired of the same routine in your day-to-day life, you at least have something to spice up your life in-between.

Ask someone in your club out on a date for Couple’s Month. There’s nothing wrong with trying. Who knows, you might get lucky.

6. Join a Singles Tour

This might be a little too late since Couple’s Month is fast approaching, and tours are usually scheduled in advance, but it can’t hurt to know you have this option.

Singles tours are perfect for men who are struggling to find someone in their local dating scene. Instead of facing countless rejections back home, they take their chances at love abroad, with single foreign ladies.

These tours have helped single men find love for decades. If you think this will help you, you should go for it. You have nothing to lose. You never know, you might find your future wife on one of these tours.

Make an Effort to Go Out and Meet People

It’s all about meeting new people. Sure, it’s better said than done. But later on, it becomes easy as long as you know where to go.

Try the places from this list. And if you fail in your attempt to meet someone, don’t let that discourage you from trying again. Give it another shot, and then another, until you finally meet someone worth knowing – or until you finally meet someone worth dating on International Couples Month. Until then, good luck, and don’t stop trying!